Posts Tagged ‘women’

10 Cool Tips For Men - How To Respond A Woman On A Dating Sites

Sunday, May 17th, 2009

1. If you start your profile with a statement like “God, what can I say about me? It’s so difficult” Well if it is true, then you are not good candidate to date along with.

2. Get ideas to start your chatting sessions with something out of the way. Mostly, women tend to get busy with many correspondents. So try to be unique which may drag attention.

3. Trying to show your overgrown sexual tone during the first chat session is not at all a suggested way to exert a pull on a lady for life.

4. Ignoring completely to read profile, which probably they have spent hours preparing, and directly asking something like “Howdy! You’re beautiful. Let me know what you do?” It’s not a problem if you do compliment them, but then you are creating an impression in front of her that you’re just looking forward for her body, and don’t even have the courtesy to read her profile. Of course you are after her body, but then, it’s a game that you have to play! ?

5. Don’t normally involve yourself into asking too many personal questions during the very initial meetings. Questions like previous date in her life, reason for break up, and others may really turn her off. Instead, try developing a good relationship by giving time to your date rather than interviewing her.

6. Normally men don’t really bother to give out their details, photos and other information. Then they complain of never getting a single response from the other end. Well now you’re not a celebrity that only giving our your name will create magic!

7. Many men also have a habit of not opening up during chat, and on top of that, start interviewing their date. Come on guys, its meant to have fun, not to have a job.

8. Devote some time in making your profiles and only cut-&-Paste job won’t work since women are pretty much aware of the same content used, as they surf sites more often to come down to a man of their kind.

9. While chatting, try and be cool. Don’t get too bothered about any of the topics of discussion. And more importantly, don’t even make them bother for some reason. This is the most ordinary mistake which men commit.

10. Even after doing everything good, if you’re dumped by her, try not to force her date you. Let her thoroughly prepare her mind. Don’t get too compulsive with one woman. If she’s not interested after all, may be it’s time you should re-consider your options.

Things men can learn from women

Tuesday, March 10th, 2009

Though men always represent them as being stronger than women, but there are several things they require to learn from women. This is the time to rectify their misconceptions, so here are a few things that they need to learn.
•    Men might call them more emotional but this is something men need to learn from women. They require to learn how to touch others emotionally, how to get moved by emotionally, because women’s are full of emotional strength.
•    Men might be physically stronger than a woman but they should learn how to keep your patience from a woman.
•    Men always try to skip commitment in every aspect of life. They love to enjoy every privilege without any commitment, whereas the girls are more committed in whatever they do.
•    When you want your female counter part to respect you, then you should also do the same.  Respect is a root of every relationship.
•    Women are always devoted in their every activity, while men do that with much less seriousness. So they should learn how to be devoted for their every activity.
•    Most women indulge in multidisciplinary activities & they want the same from their man, who are mostly focussed on a single subject at a time. Men need to get a lesson in the art of balancing work from women.
•    If they get a chance to point out your mistake they never misuse the opportunity, rather they love to mention your mistakes all the times, while women always prefer to forgive those. So learn how to forgive instead of criticising your female counter part.
•    Mostly men are treat sex as just a physical enjoyment, while their counterpart feels that sex is more than just a physical relation. They want to get the essence of togetherness. Try to be more magnanimous rather than an anxious.
•    Men always consider them perfect when in reality they mostly depend on their mother or wives in various aspects. So leave your manly ego & accept the truth.
•    Men should think of other’s pleasure as well. Men should not be obsessed with their own single minded pursuit of happiness. Treating your other half as equal has an important effect on your chemistry in bed. Men should know that a woman’s pleasure is as important as a man’s.

Mistakes men make when contacting Women online

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009

online_dating_service1In the present day contacting women through internet is very common, even there are instances of various people who got married with the help of these sites. But to enjoy the success you need to be aware about the proper process of contacting women specially online.

  • Mostly men don’t show any interest of posting a decent recent photograph. Profile with good photograph gets 5 times better response than those, without photos or having photos of poor quality.
  • Good looking girls are getting huge response every day. Give them a reason why they should open your message first. Send them an interesting topic/message for discussion.
  • Mostly men write the same unromantic message to every girl. Take her seriously, they love to feel special. Go through her profile & a send a meaningful sweet message.
  • Usually men get tense about what should be the response message, & it will make them stay last in the queue.  Prompt action is very important in such a situation (women like confident personality), it will make you appear prominent from other guys who send her messages.
  • After initial messages, don’t start asking her about her personal stuff immediately. Step slowly & cautiously. Allow her to know you first.
  • The girl you have approached might be hot & her profile might be sexy & flirty, but don’t try to be openly sexual. It will put an end to the relationship even before it starts.
  • If your profile is really not impressive & you suddenly get a romantic message with lots of promise, think twice before responding. Don’t reveal your financial information to such messages.
  • Be specific about what you are looking for in a girl & then join these shorts of online dating websites.
  • When you are searching girls you might suddenly find a lucrative hot picture in provocative outfit. There you might get a link of her personal website, where you need to put your credit card number to verify your age. Don’t fall in that trap.