Posts Tagged ‘mistakes’

Some Usual First Date Mistakes You Need to Avoid

Friday, March 12th, 2010

Usually we get very excited on our first date & this over excitement pushes us to make some real mistakes. Sometimes even we make up our mind about the guy or the girl by just having a 10 minutes conversation, but we should really know the person well before make our mind. Following are some helpful guides that could help you to avert those mistakes.

  • On your first date don’t indulge in excessive whispering or giggling with your girl mates. It can make him feel insulted. He might feel that you are not serious about him, which could also turn him off somewhere. You need to pay attention to what he is saying. It can also help you to realise what’s on his mind.
  • Your appearance requires being very confident as well as firm. If the guy finds independent women quite attractive & still searches for her sweet soft side then just don’t let them find it. Because if he finds that you are incompetent for romance, then he could move his eyes to somewhere else.
  • Don’t lose your personality. Laughing all the time can make him bored. Instead of appearing bore try to be little intelligent & if you get the chance then go for some funny teasing.
  • If a girl enticingly tells in your ear that she is quite drunk then that could play as a killer mood. However remember to stay quite conscious. If you completely lose your senses then the situation can turn worst & it’s also important for your safely too.
  • On your first date don’t try to be over sexy or very forward or someone who is very pertaining. Many girls nurture conceptions like- forward attitude (very flirty, trying to be over sexy) might impress the guy. But guys can also make some conception through your attitude. So be what you are & don’t appear very pretentious, so that he gets the urge to know you well.

Mistakes men make when contacting Women online

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009

online_dating_service1In the present day contacting women through internet is very common, even there are instances of various people who got married with the help of these sites. But to enjoy the success you need to be aware about the proper process of contacting women specially online.

  • Mostly men don’t show any interest of posting a decent recent photograph. Profile with good photograph gets 5 times better response than those, without photos or having photos of poor quality.
  • Good looking girls are getting huge response every day. Give them a reason why they should open your message first. Send them an interesting topic/message for discussion.
  • Mostly men write the same unromantic message to every girl. Take her seriously, they love to feel special. Go through her profile & a send a meaningful sweet message.
  • Usually men get tense about what should be the response message, & it will make them stay last in the queue.  Prompt action is very important in such a situation (women like confident personality), it will make you appear prominent from other guys who send her messages.
  • After initial messages, don’t start asking her about her personal stuff immediately. Step slowly & cautiously. Allow her to know you first.
  • The girl you have approached might be hot & her profile might be sexy & flirty, but don’t try to be openly sexual. It will put an end to the relationship even before it starts.
  • If your profile is really not impressive & you suddenly get a romantic message with lots of promise, think twice before responding. Don’t reveal your financial information to such messages.
  • Be specific about what you are looking for in a girl & then join these shorts of online dating websites.
  • When you are searching girls you might suddenly find a lucrative hot picture in provocative outfit. There you might get a link of her personal website, where you need to put your credit card number to verify your age. Don’t fall in that trap.

Teenagers Learning From Mistakes

Monday, February 16th, 2009

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We all learn from our past mistake, it will stop us from repeating our mistakes & this is very much advantageous for teenagers.

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