In this modern world one can find both men and women as hard working professionals who are quiet successful in their respective careers. When such a man and a woman enter into a relationship it may happen that initially or in any phase of their relationship they may have to stay apart for a certain period of time because of career compulsions. That period puts lot of stress on the relationship .They have to be very careful in dealing with those troubled times.
• Planning for a weekly date & playing games on internet or watching your favourite movies together are some important steps.
• Make a list of creative or funny things you do together through e-mail & discuss them thoroughly.
• You can even over telephone read a couple’s self-help book together.
• You can send flowers or some funny things or send cards or e-cards as much as you can.
• You can even place different note cards at different place while packing luggage for your honey. It will keep them thinking about you wherever they go.
• Just do not worry about the phone bill & have some romantic conversations.
• Try to create some romantic touchy gifts for each other like- calendars with some romantic notes or scrapbooks with memorable pictures of the both of you.
• For some extra romance create a slide show with their favourite songs & some extraordinary pictures.
• Try to utilise every opportunity to express your love your passion your affection about your partner.
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Keep your Long Distance Relationship fresh and exciting
Wednesday, March 18th, 2009Long Distance Birthday Ideas
Saturday, March 14th, 2009Though you are not staying together on your birth day but there are several ways to celebrate it together. In this cyber world it is not very difficult to surprise your sweetheart with lots of romantic gifts. Don’t feel demoralised, that you are not together; just use opportunities you have to get the smell of togetherness.
• Though you are not together, you can send them cake, gifts, balloons, streams etc. Plan some movie watching at the same time. To add some extra sparks, order the same foods from the same restaurant chain at both the places.
• Just arrange for tickets & get into the plane & surprise them with the best gift. You can even call them from the airport or surprise them at their office.
• Send them a letter with a set of clues which lead them to their birthday party or at a bakery where the birthday has ordered.
• You can even send them a touchy love letter or a sentimental small token.
• Don’t hesitate to get silly & send your better half a symbolic picture of both of you. You can even send them a picture of some very sweet memories.
• Organise a special dinner (with their friends or family) at a restaurant & book the table before on behalf of your partner. Order a Champaign bottle to be sent to their table through telephone.
• You can send them some special homemade gifts, like cards, love boxes, romantic poem, love notes etc.
• Record a special message with romantic snaps & send them through an e-mail.
• If you want to do something different then send them a singing telegram.
• Think of something out of the box & send your ticket to your sweetheart to meet at some extravagant place in the world.
How to survive in a long distance relationship
Thursday, February 26th, 2009Now a day with many people due to their work schedule and job requirements travel and stay apart from their family. As a result they are making a long distance relationship. It is really hard to make a long-distance relationship to work but it is not impossible also. It requires strong commitment, trust, few guidelines and most importantly good and healthy communication between couples.
Long-distance relationship does create emotional imbalance but it never means that the love between couples cannot flourish. Even if the couples are living together physically, they have so many issues and they have arguments for small reasons. When there is a distance risk of hardships are even higher. Women are mostly affected as they are emotionally weaker than men.
If you truly love each other, distance barrier affect will be minimal. Be positive about your relationship. If you keep on think that the relationship will not work, it will not work. Both of you have to be very honest with each other.
Communication is very important to bring you closer to your partner. Even when you are staying miles apart make sure that you call each other as many times as possible. Exchange mails on daily basis; write letters describing how you feel each day without him/her. Expressing feelings through e-mails and over the phone will help your relationship to grow and become more stable with your long distance partners. Remember, when you express your inner feelings to your partner it shows that you are very much committed to him/her. This will make the bonding tighter.
You can also surprise your partner by sending gifts, cards, flowers apart from your normal correspondences. You will find many gift ideas and method of sending online in many websites. The sweetness of your relationship will double by sending the unexpected gifts.
Try to keep yourself busy in your work. This way you will get less time to think and your days will spend fast. Make agreements with your partners that you will not look for other partners when you are away from each other. Also you will meet each other at least once in a 2-3 months time or 6 months if the place is too far.
Suspicious nature of any one or both will ruin your long distance relationship. To survive your relationship with your long-distanced partner you have to learn to trust your partner whole heartedly. If you will keep on thinking about what your partner is doing, with whom he is talking and laughing, you will be suffering from depression soon. Long distance relationship creates a perfect balance of independence and dependence in your life. This type of relationship is good and can be seen more in the couples who are more career-oriented.
Always be clear and fair in a relationship. Do not assume and expects that she has the turn to call me and I should wait for her phone call. This will make the matter more worse if both of you will keep thinking this way. It is important that both of you knows about each other’s feelings, desires, and fears. This will help you share something in a better way and also help you to have a good communication pattern.