Posts Tagged ‘dating’

How to Enchant a Man on a Date

Friday, January 22nd, 2010

In present scenario fixing a date is not at all a project. You can easily set the meeting through the internet. On a date everyone wants to be perfect, at the same time you need to know some ways of seducing or enchanting your date. If you find that the sparkles are not there then try some decent but effective ways of seducing him.

  • Try to smile with your eyes, mouth as well as through your voice. Make direct eye contact & smile. You can also play a little bit with your hair while making the direct eye contact.
  • Experts believed that men usually prefer women with a quieter as well as a lower voice. Try to speak little quietly instead of a high pitched voice.
  • You can also touch him lightly (like-over his shoulder or wrist), but remember don’t cross the limit of decency. Small beginning always works.
  • If the situation permits them move a little bit with the music. Allow him to see your movement. However here you need to maintain your decency.
  • Choose some sexy dress to wear, but that should be showing your extensive cleavage or bare back.
  • Men usually like gentle aroma. Figure out something light (lotion or perfume) for the date, which compliments you.
  • Remember to thank him for dinner, but before that compliment him for his handsome look, if he is cracking some funny jokes then laugh on his jokes (but remind him if he crosses the limit).
  • If the dating venue is your home, then use the full opportunity & cook something for him. You don’t need to be a specialist in this field, but experts believe that men will prefer women who can cook.
  • Make the perfect arrangement for the perfect date with some light romantic music, wine, foods, chocolate etc.
  • If the situation turns positive & you get success to seduce him, then prepare for the next step.

Dating Your Friend’s Ex Boyfriend: Some Tips

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Dating with your friend’s ex boyfriend!!! Many people could raise their eyebrows. However your feelings don’t want to consider those negative attitudes.  When you decide to go with that guy you need to consider its consequences. Your step could be a reason behind losing your friend etc. The following are a few tips which will help you take the ultimate step.

  • If you find that they broke up very recently then allow time for things to settle down. Let the negative atmosphere get removed & then step in.
  • Don’t support your guilty feelings when you both are determined to allow it. Don’t make any misconception that it’s all about your fault. When you are respectful to your friend & told her everything about your feeling than nothing is your fault.
  • Try to get some clear ideas about whether your friend is okay with the incident or not. If she replies in negative then prepare yourself for losing your friend. Have a clear conversation with her about your feeling, your attraction & read her reactions thoroughly.
  • Make sure that the guy is perfect for you & you are ready to loose your friend for the guy. If you fail to speculate your future with the guy then move forward. Don’t lose your friend just for a minimal affection.
  • Be circumspect about what your friend doesn’t want to hear from you about your relationship (like- his is wild in bed or so caring about it etc).
  • Instead of being jealous try to use her knowledge to your advantages, like- his favourite outing spot, what he like to do in vacation, favourite food etc.
  • Never try to compare your relationship. There might be some serious reasons behind their break up. If they continue as friends then don’t get jealous. Always remember that at the beginning she knew him better than you.
  • After such incident you friend might feel lonely or sad or depressed. Be careful about whether you are neglecting her because of the guy. To make her feel comfortable set up some weekly outing or you can also go for some shopping or spa etc. True friendship is also important in life.

10 Secret Codes To Figure Out … That Your Man Is Looking At You As His Bride

Thursday, November 19th, 2009

Mostly girls come up with this doubt, whether my boyfriend is ready to be my Man of Life. This is the most obvious thought for a girl when she starts to think to get married and to get settle down with her love life. Must say this is the time, when she really thinks and start to look at her boy friend as her Husband.

So, look at these given secret signs and try to figure out your boyfriend’s intention:

1. Act Like A Husband:

Has he suddenly started to being over possessive for you as well as  started to act like your husband? Does he keep himself attentive with your daily schedule? And finally is he taking interest to know more about your friends and colleagues and most importantly, he is trying to understand them in a better way. It’s one of a definite sign that he is now seriously thinking for you; observing you and your activities along with your surroundings, very minutely. Men are always very cautious when they go for marriage; need not to say it’s a question of life time commitment and he is in search of someone perfect for him.

2. When He Remembers The Important Dates:

It’s not possible for a man to remember all the important dates which a girl thinks are important such as the day he said, I love you, your first kiss etc.. But if your boyfriend even remembers the nearby date or month, is also an indication that he thinks seriously for you now.

3. Getting More Expressive and Caring:

When your man starts to care more for you and on the top, he has started to express his love more intensely. Be noticeable especially when he starts to say I LOVE YOU most of the time and throughout the day. When he tries to make you confident that you mean a lot to him plus make an effort to prove that how much he is sincere for you now. Need not to tell you it is a clear cut signal that now he seriously wants to seek your attention and want to be with you.

4. No Secrecy From You:

When your boyfriend doesn’t hide anything from you, anything means anything…..you are not a secret to his family, close friends, and colleagues. And now, he shares very personal matter about his family with you and ask for your outlook on it. This is furthermore a good sign to know, that you are that one girl he finds very close to him and wants to live his whole life with you.

5. Receive Your Call All The Time:

No matter it is whether day or night or he is in office or at home he attends your call without being worried is a good sign. When a man dares to talk to his girl friend in front of his colleagues or family, it means he is serious for you. He loves to attend your call at any circumstances and you are no longer a stranger or some other girl to him.

6. Involves You In Every Important Decision:

When he asks for your views for his important business decisions, sometimes decision’s related to his life and future. It’s another vital secret sign for you that he compliments your decision….. “Hey you are important to me and your views are more important to me as it’s not about me only in fact it is about us.” So, now you both are Us not You and I….

7. Cares About Your Likings and Disliking:

When he starts to cares about your liking and disliking, love to watch your favorite movie with you all the time you wish to see. When you are on date he orders your favorite cuisine, he remembers every little bit of things related to you. Now here, undoubtedly he loves you like anything and it is a great secret code and sign for you, as to care so much for your likings are bit hard for other man who doesn’t love you.

8. Respects Your Decision:

When your man respects your decision and listens to your wish and desire carefully, as well as he doesn’t impose his choice on you is one of the great sign for you to keep on counting him for your whole life relationships.

9. Care For Your Family:

Usually, when man loves a woman, he is so much into his lady love that he starts to care for her family too. When a man care for your parents and siblings, he happily shares your responsibility for your family, it is adorable of him.. Don’t ever take it lightly; simply try to keep on noticing his activities and behavior for you and your family, as this is again a good sign for your man’s interest for you.

10. Try To Know Your Views For Marriage:

When he asks your views for your life partner, and asks you, “Hey dear when you want to get married?” When he secretly takes you to some jewelry shop and ask you to chose a ring or other gift for his sister or friend and try to take your finger size secretly, no doubt he is into you completely now and he wants to get settle down with you forever……..

These were my point of view, and I discovered this from my own experience, I have been noticing all these changes in my boyfriend for last 5 years. My views may vary from your views, so you are welcome to give your views via comment box below.