After figuring out the perfect guy now it’s time for some efficacious dating. It will help you both to understand each other. However when you find that your love of life is really quite shy they you need to take the initiative to begin the conversation as well as to make him comfortable.
- For some casual talk tell him how your day was. Ask him some casual questions (make sure that it does not sounds like interrogation) or discuss about your favourite place, your pet etc. These shorts of casual conversation can help him to open up, remember to let him talk also.
- After some casual talk you can share something secret about you. It gives him some clear picture about what you are all about.
- Try to memorise his favourite colour, pet’s name etc. It will make him realise that you are truly into him & it will also help him to feel comfortable.
- When you are introducing him to your family or your friends, inform them in advance about his shyness. Always mention the loud people at the end of your list.
- Experts believe that shy guys have been found to be quite open as well as confident with their friends, but when it comes to their girlfriend they get hangdog. So you need to spend time with him just like a friend. It will boost his confidence as well as you can reach the real person.
- In such cases instead of waiting for him to call you up & arrange the second date, try to make it yourself. You can also plan for some good movie where he can sit quietly.
- Don’t sacrifice your flirty-happy attitude just because the love of your life is a shy guy. Show him your flirty side. Experts believed that it works best to open up the shy guy. Removing his shy shell would be a new beginning of your lovely love life.
- When you are dating a shy guy make sure that you are paying complete attention to what he is saying. Don’t accept distractions like mobile phone while he is saying something or don’t portray barren attitude towards his talking.
- Make sure that you are not hurting his trust. If he prefers to keep the relation in a small circle, then try to keep it secret with only a few of your close friends knowing about it.
- When the person is not disclosing his feelings, they try to read his body language or his eyes. It will help you realise whether he is bored or enjoying your company.
You are a single dad, that doesn’t mean that it’s an end of your love life. You still have the option for new relations. In this cyber world you will get several options for dating. Be honest & confident about what you are looking for, it will give a different look to your lonely life.
Dating is full of fun, with trial and error. Nobody can learn it from any book or article, its all about experiences and your luck.