When you are in your favourite bookstore or in a coffee shop or some other place where you eyes catches the glimpse of a beautiful girl. You smile & she also smiles back. If you want to go further with this relationship then you need to talk with her or begin the conversation. So following tips will help you to do your job without losing your decency.
If you are a shy kind of a person then you might like to use the instant messenger or some social networking site etc. However in reality you need to ask her in person, you can also use the phone for this purpose.
Show who you really are, instead of representing some other people. Girls like you because who you are, not who you are pretending to be.
Try to balance your confidence as well as your shyness. Over-confidence or excessive shyness can ruin your date.
Your eye contact will explore your sincerity in face to face contact. So when you are talking with her remember to make eye contact. You can feel little shy but eye contact really makesan impression.
Don’t use your junior high attitude & use your friends to ask one of her friends. Be confident & do it yourself.
Make sure you are in control & not promise imaginative things like best night out of her life etc. Try to be yourself & honest. It will show your sincerity.
Try to be quite specific about the outing like asking him to go out for dinner in one of your favourite restaurants. Add the time for little more specification. If she is engaged on that date she will call you to change it. Try to be specific to get the answer in positive.
Never wait till some special event happens. Just do it. If you wait quite long then there is a possibility that someone else will already finish his job.
When you ask her to go out & find her hesitating then just stop there. Don’t try to insist her to come. Your excessive pressure will definitely appear creepy.
Instead of using the same old pick up lines just go & introduce yourself without any explanation. Your approach will look cleaner.
Never cross your limit & throw a grand dinner, which will push you to across your financial limit. Instead of taking her out on a fancy dinner try to make your date a happy one.
After the date ends happily, try to stay in touch further, make sure that your girl has your number so that she could contact you if required.