Be respectful about your desires & emotions. Having a child is a heavenly experience a huge responsibility, but it doesn’t mean that it is the end of your romantic living. You can not deprive your partner from their needs. Live the life with full of enjoyment not as a burden. There several ways of doing so, what you need is to use those opportunities in a proper way.

• Once in a week leave the little one at your mother’s place or you can arrange for baby sitters and go for a night out.
• Try different ways to connect outside your bedroom. Make your partner feel that after having a kid you still love them in a same way as before.
• Kiss passionately (if the situation permit or you can make it yourself) when you are leaving your sweetheart.
• When your little one is sleeping in their room it means that you have your privacy for the moment. You can watch a movie together or nestle in the couch or play a romantic light music.
• Drop your kid at your mother’s home and spend some quality time together. You can arrange a babble bath together or message each other gently.
• If you get time then recapitulate your first meeting, tension of the first night together.
• If situation permits (you can arrange a baby sitter) spend some time at your terrace under romantic moonlight.
• Send some surprise romantic messages to your partner. Naptime for kid can be your perfect time for snuggling, so be active & spontaneous.
• After having a baby your spouse may need some time to get back that sexy affection towards sex. Give her some quality time. You can even discuss the problem & go for some professional advices.
• Divide your responsibilities for kids. It will help to have your me time. It’s very important to keep the romance alive & active.