Most of the divorces have an adverse affect on the kid’s mind. This can even cause mental disorders in them. So be sensitive of their emotions & love. Don’t pressurise them to adjust with the situation. Provide them some quality time to adjust with the situation in their own way. Don’t ruin their future to give a perfect look of your present. Be committed to your children & help them with whatever they need.

• You must inform your children about your impending divorce.
• Try to give a clear explanation to your children about the causes of your divorce.
• Take their emotions, reactions sensitively regarding your divorce.
• Make them feel (through your love-affection & commitment) that their security is not going to be affected.
• Let your children cope with the situation at their own pace & help them carry on with their normal routine.
• Watch your kid’s behaviour properly. Whether it is age appropriate or whether divorce is having an effect on their maturity level.
• Deal with your divorce process in a very healthy manner so as to set a good example for your kids.
• Never ever expect your child to perform the duties of absent parents.
• Don’t attempt any tricks to win your kids affection.
• Retain the daily contacts between your kids & absent parents. Don’t deprive them from this love and affection.
• Don’t try to create hatred or corrupt their feelings towards the absent parent.
• Spend some quality time with each child & make them feel that they have a distinct, independent existence.
• Don’t covey your messages to the other parent by using your child.