Failure in Love hurts, when you are beaten by your destiny and life, and lose your beloved, it’s very obvious you will feel isolated, broken and alone. It is normal break ups are not so easy to handle, but I believe life is not going to end just because that one person whom you loved most, doesn’t exist more in to your life.
I am very upset these days just because of my little sister’s foolishness, whenever I am upset, I use to write; as sometimes, some matters are like that which you can’t even share to your husband or friends.
Love and break ups are very common between youngsters now, but does it mean you should end your life for him? I find girls usually get emotional with break ups with their boyfriend; there are some girls who take this tough time normally and move forward on the other hand some girls get hurt badly but sooner they come back to life but unfortunately there are some girls who get totally broken after their break ups and very often they try to end their precious life.
When we love someone honestly and when we lose our love, unquestionably it hurts badly. My younger sister is in coma now; reason is very simple that she has lost her love. She was attached with a guy for about 6 years. It was a long distant relationship; she met with him on internet via some chat messenger. And I know this fact very well, that she was very much committed to him, though she hadn’t met that guy in real.
It was very unfortunate for them because of religion differences my family went against her. She was bounded by restrictions from our family. Finally, it happened like this – the guy is getting married and my sister is unable to bear all these. For last many days, she was not in her consciousness and one day it ended with a suicide attempt. She had taken good dose of sleeping pills and went out for a drive and met with a severe accident which finally resulted to lead her in coma.
I am not saying that guy has ditched her. I had talked him on this matter and by seeing each and every facet and especially family matters, I will say he has taken right decision. After all, when there are no chances to take your relationship to marriage it is better to end the relationship calmly. After all 6 years is not a bad time to fight for yourself, he had tried his best and my sister too.
But now when I see my beautiful sister lying on death bed, I want to cry loud. Now, I think who is wrong my sister or that guy? Sometimes I think he should have tried once more or should have waited for her for few more years. He should have taken her in full confidence before taking this decision of marriage, if he had really loved her.
Sometimes, I feel very angry with my sister, is life is so cheap to end like this for a guy? No doubt you had loved him truly but you don’t have any responsibility towards your parents, your siblings? You are educated and even though you are doing this kind of foolishness. Life is not a piece of cake and it is also not necessary that you will get everything in your life. Achieving and losing both are neck to neck in our life. And we should take our failure as challenge.
Usually, people use to say, those who commit suicide are coward, but I feel it’s not easy to end life, it’s not easy to cut your wrist, it is not easy to take poison, it is not easy to hang yourself. It needs courage. It’s my perspective, I may be wrong.
But I am STRONGLY AGAINST these kinds of people who play with their life and try to end it by committing suicide. It is a crime and one way you are insulting your GOD who has given this life to you.
I want to say to those girls who are very emotional, that always be ready for every consequences, if you are going to be in love or you are in love. It is not necessary that every love is going to end in getting your love forever…OR to end your life for one Man. Life is an important gift by our Almighty and we should respect him at least.
I need prayers for my little doll, she is one of the most wonderful and beautiful girl. I want to tell her, look around you there are many people who love you straight from their heart. Come back to your life, face the challenges, cultivate your worries with bravery, you will see a triumph is waiting for you…
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