Marriages are made in Heaven. It’s true, there is someone for each of us they say, bu. In today’s fast paced technology driven mad world it’s a real challenge for couples to keep love going strong. There are too many distractions that come in between that, Love is just lost.

But there are ways to mend things. How can we bring love back into our lives? Why do we look upon successful married couples who still are very much in love? What are the secrets of super happy couples? Compatibility is one solid factor. Let’s find some other as well:

•  They respect and trust one another:

They know they are individuals first and couples later on so most important aspect in being happy couples is that they have respect for one another for their individuality and uniqueness .If you want to be living a happy married life then trust your partner completely and wholeheartedly. Trust is very important in any relations.

•  They are Lovers:

It may sound weird but they are always in love and act as Lovers. For them there is no boundary laid. So to be like them you too ensure to re-live and re-kindle your courtship days and try falling in love all over again. Become lovers.

•  They like to be Loved and give love equally:

They share this give and take relation with each other. They don’t calculate and measure their love. Just Love your partner unconditionally, it’s only when you give love, you receive it as well. Give space in your relation and plant the seed of love in your hearts.

•  Looks does matter:

People say “Love is inner beauty not external” but come on we are humans and the grass always seems greener on the other side. You don’t need looks to kill. Age does take a toll on all of us. But happy couples ensure that they look good for each other. Stop creating a wide gap in your relation because of the appearance, instead start feeling the need for each other, charge up, and get in shape. It’s a simple rule, Look good for each other. Looks does matter.

• They forgive and forget:

They have learnt the art to forgive and forget. They don’t pile up their issues. We can also follow this. Don’t fret and fume over things, Forgive and forget. Keep no grievances with each other, try and solve them. Remember No one’s perfect.

• Stop the blame game:

Fights and arguments can be endless and the only solution to stop them is just simply stop the blame game, criticism, comparisons, and stop pointing fingers at each other. Happy couples do fight but they also bring in tenderness and softness in handling matter. He may not always be right or she may not be taking the right decision, but don’t just yell and show the world that “Finishes its all over between us”. Be a Listener, find solutions, get advices it does work. Instill love.

• They are always connected:

Happy couples are always connected, in touch and sync with each other. Be it their pressures at work place, or any issue for that matter they communicate and are open with each other. When we are living with someone, generally we tend to know almost everything about each other. But if we don’t connect with each other, then things start falling apart. Don’t be strangers to each other, Don’t lie, have doubts and be secretive, it just kills the relationship, discuss your problems, doubts find solutions , get advices , talk them over and Get connected.

• They Keep sex alive:

It’s always found that couples who are connecting sexually are sometimes the most romantic, intimate, loving, less depressed, less lonely and less conflicted ones as they keep sex alive. What happens to couples as time pass by, why does the sex drive reduce? Don’t think of Sex as an ordeal and it doesn’t have to end up in intercourse. It can be just be the warm touch, caress, naughty foreplay, passionate kissing that’s keeps the relation strong. Bring sex back again: All the passion, romance back in the Bedroom. Make this place a haven of pleasure, passion and intimacy.

• They treat and pamper themselves once in a while:

From their busy schedule happy couples do take and go for some vacation or trip just to be with each other and give time for each other religiously. Do the same. Remember those honeymoon days go for a short pleasurable vacation to some romantic place. If couples have children, leave them with grandparents and just go for a short passionate holiday. It will just rejuvenate and refresh your relationship with each other.

• For them Marriage is a scared institution:

As mentioned in the Bible on married couples: “They are no longer two, but one flesh” It is not only the sharing of two hearts and lives but sharing of body and soul, the most scared institution, a divine relationship and happy couples believe this and respect this.

The bonds of matrimony are like any other bonds – they mature slowly. Would just like to end on one quote on Marriage by Marie Reed Crowell “To keep the fire burning brightly there’s one easy rule: Keep the two logs together, near enough to keep each other warm and far enough apart- about a finger’s breadth- for breathing room. Good fire, good marriage, same rule”