Dating with your friend’s ex boyfriend!!! Many people could raise their eyebrows. However your feelings don’t want to consider those negative attitudes.  When you decide to go with that guy you need to consider its consequences. Your step could be a reason behind losing your friend etc. The following are a few tips which will help you take the ultimate step.

• If you find that they broke up very recently then allow time for things to settle down. Let the negative atmosphere get removed & then step in.
• Don’t support your guilty feelings when you both are determined to allow it. Don’t make any misconception that it’s all about your fault. When you are respectful to your friend & told her everything about your feeling than nothing is your fault.
• Try to get some clear ideas about whether your friend is okay with the incident or not. If she replies in negative then prepare yourself for losing your friend. Have a clear conversation with her about your feeling, your attraction & read her reactions thoroughly.
• Make sure that the guy is perfect for you & you are ready to loose your friend for the guy. If you fail to speculate your future with the guy then move forward. Don’t lose your friend just for a minimal affection.
• Be circumspect about what your friend doesn’t want to hear from you about your relationship (like- his is wild in bed or so caring about it etc).
• Instead of being jealous try to use her knowledge to your advantages, like- his favourite outing spot, what he like to do in vacation, favourite food etc.
• Never try to compare your relationship. There might be some serious reasons behind their break up. If they continue as friends then don’t get jealous. Always remember that at the beginning she knew him better than you.
• After such incident you friend might feel lonely or sad or depressed. Be careful about whether you are neglecting her because of the guy. To make her feel comfortable set up some weekly outing or you can also go for some shopping or spa etc. True friendship is also important in life.