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Indicators of His Two Timing

Wednesday, March 24th, 2010

Sometimes we just don’t understand whether the guy really likes you or he is just playing a game with you. Though you are completely into him, but his behaviour turns out to be really hard to judge. The following guides could help you to get the ultimate decision about the guy you liked most.

  • When you are sharing your life experiences with him & in return you find him quite reluctant to do the same then he could be playing games with you. He doesn’t want to share his stories with you. He might be not considering you as someone special in his life.
  • When you guys are together & you find him sending someone calls to voicemail or neglecting repeated text message then he may be avoiding someone in-front of you. In worst case that person could be his girlfriend.
  • When you find him quite lethargic about planning your summer break or spring break or some other holidays then he might not want to spend the holidays with you. He might be planning the holidays with someone else. If you really get the sense of something like that then you need to move on.
  • When he is not interested in introducing you to his friends then he might be not serious about you. If he is really serious about you then he would want to introduce you to his friends & family.
  • Someday you will find him very loving and completely & totally into you but within a few moments he is distant from then he could be playing games with your emotions.
  • If he is expressing interest in coming to your home or asking you to come to his place instead of going out together then he might be concealing something from you.
  • When he is not introducing you as his girlfriend or soul mate then he is not considering you something like that. He is not quite serious about the relations.
  • If you find him calling you at the last minute for going out then there is a possibility that he might have asked somebody else before you & she cancelled the date, so he is now asking you for going out. If he really wanted to take you out then he could have planned it in advance.

Fun Ways of Asking a Guy Out

Monday, March 22nd, 2010

Whenever we discuss about going out we always prefer that the men should ask the girl. But it can also happen differently. A girl can also ask a guy out. Before you step into the process you just have to know some useful processes.

  • You can also use the old & easy processes like sending him a letter to confess your crush over him & then asking him for going out with you.
  • If the person you like work somewhere else, where people need to fix an appointment to meet him them you can fix an appointment as another person. Meet with him at a perfect appointment schedule & ask him to go out with you at nearest restaurant or you can meet him with some of his favourite cuisines.
  • For adding some extra fun, try to get his jacket & place a note inside it. In your note mention something like- if he wants his jacket as well as you then met with you at some (mention the name) restaurant.
  • You can also ask him for going out over the business card & don’t forget to mention your contact email address as well as phone number.
  • In your casual conversation ask him whether he has any girlfriend or not. If he reply negative then ask him again whether he have someone or anybody in his mind. If the conversation turns positive then ask him for outing with you.
  • Arrange a big envelope full of balloons in different colours. Attach a note in the envelop asking whether he will go out with you & also mention then if the answer is yes then send the green balloon & red one for no. However there should not be any red balloon present inside.
  • For adding some fun write a letter to your man of interest by saying that he has won the prize for most eligible bachelor in the town & then ask him for going out with him. Don’t forget to mention your phone number in the letter.
  • Sometimes ideas like a game of scavenger hunt can really give you some fruitful results. In this process you can leave a note for him saying something like you want to go out with him. In your note you should also mention how to find you. Wait for him. When he arrives at the spot just hug him suddenly from the back or cover his eyes etc & then disclose your emotions.
  • Figure out his favourite book or magazine which he is reading presently & place a piece of note in the magazine. Don’t forget to spray some perfume over the paper. After saying something about you ask him to go out with you.

Is your Man Lying to You?

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

Usually lying is not acceptable to us. However in relationship we sometimes lie to each other. Sometimes it happens because of some good reasons & sometimes for something bad. Men & women both can lie to each other. Following are some useful tips to realise that the man is lying.

  • If he always refer his friend to clarify himself (if you ask him any question he use his friends to prove himself right) then there might be something wrong so he needs his friends to prove himself right.
  • If you find him hesitating to answer you (almost all the time) or taking time to prepare the answer then he might be lying to you.
  • When you suspect him lying, however he has his ready answer always, then he is probably lying to you.
  • If you find him discussing about his friend who has cheated on his girlfriend, as well as he finds such things very funny then there might be something wrong. Sometimes he can use one of his friends to assume as a cheater when in reality he is actually doing such rubbish things.
  • If his friends told you that he has lied to his other girlfriends before then there is a chance that he may also lie to you. In such conditions be careful about your relationship.
  • When you figure out that he acts a little guilty then he might be doing something wrong. Usually he will try to hide the wrong things if he has done anything.
  • If you find him lying in small things then he can probably lie for bigger things too.
  • He can directly send you to the voicemail whenever you call him. He might be trying to hide something from you.
  • When you identified that he lies to his parents as well as his friends & boss then chances are he will not disclose the truth to you.
  • If he moves restlessly when you ask him something, (like shaking his legs, never make any eye contact etc) then he might be trying to hide the truth.
  • He can try to protect himself too much if you figure out he is lying. He can try his best to prove you wrong. He will try to accuse you of lying or find you crazy.