Man & women are distinct or separate in every manner. Men are mostly control with their emotions with logic. So before they win their heart you need to know how to effectively grasp them. Though there are no specific rules, but definitely some techniques are there.

• Be specific about the topic you want to talk about with your man & prepare yourself with the full knowledge.
• Try to ascertain what his interests are use those areas for further communication.
• To increase the salt don’t response to his question; make a pause to enhance his curiosity & then response.
• Use brief questions to ascertain whether he is at all interested in you.
• If he is still expressing not that much interest then add some more salt. Appreciate him for his attitude or appreciate his never changing attitude etc.
• Try to be a good listener & pay attention to his words.
• After attention say something encouraging, don’t discourage him with your judgements.
• Try to maintain serenity when you communicate.
• Be specific about what you want & express that clearly.
• Maintain a strong attitude to overcome all the obstacles.