Majority of couples while dating tend to overlook some of the undesired behaviors in the partner they are dating, which may lead to complications in future life. And the funny part is when either one or both of them feels “Had I given a thought to this before…!”. As per a Psychotherapist whose job is to work with women more often in the ground of Domestic Violence, during the counseling sessions, they can always sketch out a path to some of the unpleasant as well as dangerous characteristics from the very beginning of a relationship.
Given below are some of the Red Signals or Flags you should watch out for in a probable date.
1. When it comes to going out to some place, he don’t even bother to consult you before taking a decision.
2. More often he disagrees or disrespects your opinions, when you two are sharing thoughts alone.
3. When are you both are in presence of a group, he makes pained remarks regarding you in front of you, and talks in a tone as if you were never present.
4. He is not pretty smooth when involved in a session of love making, and also engages you in tasks you don’t really like.
5. He is not really interested in getting along with your family and friends, on top of that, he expects you to be more than social along with his family.
6. He looks down to what you do at your workplace, and don’t acknowledge the areas of your expertise. He also considers your accomplishments as good for nothing.
7. Even your presence won’t stop him flirting other ladies, and when you try to confront him with this, he’ll say that you’re trying to be jealous.
8. No connection can be a one way traffic. He normally loses his temperament, and stays irritated for a long time. And after all, blames it all to you.
9. When he gets angry, he more often punches walls!
10. And finally, one of the prime factors may be when he’s very keen to immediately start off with a strong relationship. Most of the women get flattered at this, and as a result, they are bound to overlook the circumstances that can occur in future. But don’t confuse this with ‘love at first sight’.
There exist many factors other than the ones listed. But the point is that if your date is turning on any of these red flags, things can get only worst from there. In such a case, it’s always better to walk out.